Portsmouth, New Hampshire. August 1732.
Edward
Cate lay dying in his bed. He was
seventy-seven years of age.
Elizabeth, his wife, sat in a nearby rocking chair knitting a
quilt. Bursts of warm summer air
periodically entered the open windows and enlivened the otherwise drafty old
wooden room.
“James
and Sam will be over soon,” Elizabeth told her husband, unsure if he could hear
her or not.
James was Edward and Elizabeth’s
oldest son, named after his paternal grandfather whom he never met. James was in his early forties. Sam was James’s third son and fourth
child. He was eight years
old. Edward had remained in bed
for nearly a week and had barely spoken a word to anyone, including
Elizabeth. As soon as Elizabeth
mentioned James and Sam, Edward opened his eyes and slowly turned to her.
“My son and grandson are coming
over?” the old man asked. “What
about the other grandchildren?”
“The older boys are tending to the
land, and Margaret is at home with the youngest three children. She is pregnant again, you know, so the
doctor wants her to rest. Seven
children make a woman awfully tired.
I should know!”
“Oh,” Edward lamented. “Well, at least I’ll be able to see one
of them. I want to talk to James,
too. We have some last-minute
business to discuss regarding my affairs.”
Elizabeth sighed and nodded. All she could think about recently was
the demise of her husband’s health.
He had been her partner for forty-five years. Edward worked like a bull
all his life. He was a good
worker, a good father, and a good husband. There would never be a convenient or good time to say
goodbye to him.
Someone outside knocked on the
door. Elizabeth stood up and
greeted the visitors. James and
Sam had finally arrived from the next town over, Greenland. There, his family dwelled near the
majestic Great Bay. Elizabeth
welcomed the boys into her home.
“How’s Father doing?” James asked
his mother.
“He’s awake now. Go see him,” she stoically
replied.
Sam smiled at his grandmother and
followed his father into Edward’s room to visit the old man.
“Hello, son!” Edward beamed. “And where’s my favorite grandson?”
“Hello, Father,” James nodded. “Sorry the others couldn’t make it.”
“Hi, Grandpa,” Sam shyly piped
up.
Edward chuckled after hearing his
grandson’s soft voice. What a
delightful boy, Edward thought. So
much like me when I was his age.
“Your letter said you had some
business for me to execute,” James reminded his father.
“Ah, yes!” the old man
remembered. “I need you to look at
some land deeds and make sure they’re accurate. Mother can show you where they are.”
James nodded and followed Elizabeth
out of the room. Sam remained
behind with Edward.
“How are you doing, Sam, my boy?”
Edward inquired with a grin.
“Fine,” the boy laconically
responded.
“Tell me how things are going,” the
old man persisted. “How is
school?”
“Pretty well. Right now in history we’re learning
about how New Hampshire was founded.
Teacher wants us to write about our own family’s history. How we got here and stuff like that.”
Edward’s ears pricked up. He rarely had an opportunity to talk to
his grandchildren about his family’s origins.
“Would you like me to tell you what
I know about our family’s history?” Edward eagerly asked.
“Okay,” Sam half-heartedly
agreed.
“Have a seat, son,” Edward
instructed his grandson, who sat in Elizabeth’s vacant rocking chair.
“The Cates have been in New
Hampshire for a long time. My
father, James, who is your great-grandfather, was among this state’s pioneers,”
Edward explained.
“Grandpa, was your father born
here?” Sam asked. He was intrigued about his family
having some link to New Hampshire’s colonial beginnings.
Edward sighed. He would have to admit the limits of
his genealogical knowledge.
“I’m ashamed to admit that I don’t
know where Father was born,” the old man reluctantly confessed. “You see, Father wasn’t a talkative
man. He was very intense, but also
very plain and not eager to discuss himself. I was my parent’s oldest child, so I spent the most time
with Father, but he never talked about his life before he met Mother. Some say he came to this land from
Europe. Others have said he was
born here. Most men of his
generation traveled here from western Europe, so that’s what I believe Father
did.”
“When did your mother meet your
father, Grandpa?” the boy asked.
Edward smiled. Although he did not know when or where
his parents first met, Edward knew about his parents’ infamous fornication
charge from 1656 that resulted in them publicly acknowledging the sin and
paying court costs from its adjudication.
What a scene that must have caused at a time when Puritan Massachusetts
effectively controlled New Hampshire’s government. Edward thought of a less explicit answer to give Sam.
“My parents never really discussed
that subject with me, so I don’t know when they met each other. I do know that they took to each other, er, rather quickly and remained together
until father’s death in 1677.”
It was true. James and Alice Cate remained married
for more than two decades until James died on May 15, 1677. Edward was only twenty-one when his
father died. He never forgot that
day.
“Grandpa, how many brothers and
sisters did you have?” little Sam eagerly inquired. He was starting to enjoy his grandfather’s
storytelling.
“Oh my,” Edward thought. “Let’s see. There was John, Rebecca, and Sarah... Um... Who else? Oh
right! Mary, Elizabeth, and
Isabel... And I’m forgetting
someone else. Who is it? Ah! William. My
poor brother William!”
“Did something happen to William?”
Sam asked with concern.
Edward sighed and looked towards
the window beside him, as if his thoughts were reaching outside beyond it to a
faraway time and place.
“William endured a tragedy that
none of my other siblings had the misfortune of facing. In June 1696, I never forgot, a group
of Indians raided Portsmouth Plains, where William and his family lived at the
time. The Indians killed some
fourteen villagers, including William’s oldest son, William Jr., and injured
five others, including William’s three younger children. One of the injured who survived was a
woman in her mid-seventies. The
Indians cut off her scalp and left her for dead, but somehow she survived. After recovering the injured victims of
the raid, a group of men chased the Indians from the Plains to Breakfast
Hill. The Indians then rowed out
to the Isle of Shoals and disappeared after that.”
Sam was simultaneously awed and
reviled.
“Wow. That’s awful!
So what happened to William and his family?” the boy wondered
aloud.
“They moved far away. I don’t remember where they ended up
going, but it was as far from the Plains as possible. William was never the same after his oldest boy died. It was
a tremendous loss for him, poor fellow.”
“Grandpa, were you and William
close as brothers?” Sam asked.
“We got along well enough. When he grew up, he didn’t move quite
as far away from home as our brother John did, but William still wanted a life
of his own, as all men do when they reach a certain age. One time I will never forget is when
William defended me from an attack by some crazed neighbors of ours back in 1681
or so. I was around twenty-five at
the time. A local ruffian named
Christopher Kenniston tore down John Johnson Sr.’s fence for some reason, so
John Jr., William, and I went to put the fence back up for John Sr. Out of nowhere, Thomas Every, his wife,
and son Tom Jr. approached us and started attacking William and me with stakes
from the old fence. One of the
Everys beat William over the head with a stake. What an awful event that was. It took all of our effort for John and I to fight the Everys
off and take William away. Why
they attacked us I still don’t understand,” Edward lamented.
“What bullies,” Sam remarked. “Sometimes I see kids at school do
that. It’s not right.”
“No, Sam, it’s not. Fortunately, we brought the Everys to
court and won a judgment against them.
They had pay for William’s injuries and court costs. Served them right.”
“What did your parents think about
the fight?” Sam inquired.
“Well, Father died in 1677, so he
wasn’t around at the time, but I recall Mother being quite upset about it. But she was tough. She had her fair share of fights in the
past.”
Sam cocked his head in
disbelief. He could not imagine a
woman fighting because he thought only boys did that.
“What kind of fights did she have,
Grandpa?”
Edward chuckled. He immediately remembered a fight
involving his mother that occurred two decades before his own fight with the
Everys. In August 1661, Alice Cate
accused Sarah Abbott of causing Alice to lose a child she was carrying. Edward could not remember the specifics
of the accusation, but it incensed Alice enough to bite Abbott’s thumb and
scratch up her face. Nearby
witnesses had to separate the two women before they killed each other. Abbott eventually won a court judgment
against Alice, who was to be whipped ten times, but James spared Alice that
fate by paying a fine and court fees.
Edward summed this all up in a way that Sam could digest.
“Mother and another woman got into
a fight, and Mother ended up being punished for it. The moral of the story is to avoid fights at all costs, unless
you truly can’t. Never fight
unless it’s for self-defense, Sam.”
The boy nodded. Since they were on the subject of
fighting, he wondered about his great-grandfather’s exploits.
“Grandpa, did your father ever get
into fights?”
Edward took a moment to process his
thoughts. His father would be
harder to explain than his mother.
“Father was a complicated man. As a carpenter, he was never rich or
well off. We lived a very meager
lifestyle. A few years after
Mother’s fight with Sarah Abbott, Father incurred a debt to a prominent wine
merchant and innkeeper, Walter Abbott.
Unfortunately, Walter Abbott was the husband of Sarah Abbott, whom
Mother had her fight with, so that made the situation even more taxing. Another man named John Paine loaned a
lot of money to us as well. Both
Abbott and Paine sued Father in 1663, I think, and forced him to pay up on the
debt, which only made life even harder for our family.”
“It’s never good to be a debtor, is
it, Grandpa?” Sam asked with sympathy for his beleaguered great-grandfather.
“No, lad, but sometimes work was hard for Father to come by,
so turning to borrowing was all he thought he could do until he received new
commissions. At those jobless
times, Father would become melancholy and take to drinking alcohol.”
Edward failed to tell Sam that at
around the same time his father was sued for not repaying the Abbott-Paine
debts in early 1663, Father was also charged with drunkenness and property
destruction. James acknowledged in
court that he had too much alcohol to drink one night and that he subsequently
destroyed the sign and door of the local tavern owned by the colorful Rachel
Webster. Rachel inherited the
tavern from her late husband, John, and later appeared in court several times
as a defendant. She ultimately had
to close her pub in 1671 for illegally selling rum and wine, and for keeping an
unclean establishment.
“There were other times when Father
went to court for issues he had no part in,” Edward continued. “When I was around twelve, he served on
a jury of inquest to determine whether a man had died by drowning or not. Father was also a witness to a fight
between Sarah Abbott and her second husband, Henry Sherburne.”
Edward smiled as he recalled this
situation.
“I can only imagine what Father was
thinking at the time, because Sarah was the woman my mother beat up some nine
years earlier. Maybe Father
thought that Sarah’s fight with Sherburne proved that my mother didn’t truly
start the fight with Sarah in 1661.
Sarah Abbott went back to court several times for fighting with other
people; Mother didn’t.”
Sam nodded and then let out of
quiet yawn. Edward smiled at his
grandson and realized that the sun was starting to set on the horizon. He wanted to get a few last stories in
before Sam had to go home.
“One time, when I was around
seventeen, Father and I were with a bunch of men who were drinking flip in the
streets, which is something you should never do because it’s stupid. Anyway, the group became too rowdy for
us, so Father and me returned home.
Unfortunately, the other men kept drinking. While Lodowick Fowler was walking ahead of the group, his
gun went off and killed a man named John Ellis. Fowler was convicted for Ellis’s death. I remember Father being so glad that we
had gone home when we did. Like I
said earlier, always avoid trouble if you can. If things don’t look good, get as far away from them as
possible. It will serve you well
in the long run.”
“Yes, Grandpa,” Sam agreed, even
though he did not entirely understand the story.
“We all do things that we’re not
proud of, Sam,” Edward sighed.
“Even though Father and I were smart on the night of John Ellis’s death,
we weren’t so smart the following year.
We got into some trouble for starting a fight with the servant of
another well-known Portsmouth man, John Cutts. As you may know, Cutts became the first president of New
Hampshire two years after Father died and was one of the state’s largest
landowners. In any event, I always
taught my children to avoid fights, because I remembered how much trouble my
own parents got into by refusing to back down. As much as I admired them for their boldness, I also reviled
them for being so foolish sometimes.
Unfortunately, Father died when I was only twenty-one, so I didn’t have
a chance to ask him any of the questions that occurred to me as time moved
forward.”
“Couldn’t your mother answer some
of those questions?” Sam wondered.
“Yes, some, but there were many
things Mother never knew about Father either. Plus, relations between Mother and I became more strained
after Father’s death. Father died
without a will in 1677, so Mother went to court to account for Father’s
possessions. I kept many of his
tools to work with in my own carpentry trade. However, Father’s estate went unsettled for another
twenty-five years until Mother and I came up with a settlement agreement in
court. Mother didn’t worry about
creating Father’s estate because she remarried to a man named John Westbrook
within two years of Father’s death.
She lived with Westbrook until he died in 1697. He was fairly well off, so he took good
care of Mother. I just felt like
Father’s affairs had been neglected during that time and needed some
resolution, for the family’s sake.”
“That stuff sounds complicated. I don’t really get it,” Sam complained
as he yawned again.
Edward chuckled. He enjoyed talking to Sam about his
family’s past. Even though much of
the material was a bit too dense for an eight-year-old boy, hopefully the lad
would retain some of it. James
then walked into the room with Elizabeth.
“Ready to go home, Sam?” James
asked his sleepy son.
“Yes, Father,” the boy
replied.
Edward left Sam with one last
nugget before his father took him home.
“Sam, one more thing. I lost my father when I was a young
man. There were always many
questions that I wanted to ask him but never had a chance to. Will you be a good boy for me and
cherish your parents? I know that
they love you very much.”
James smiled at his father and then
looked to his son.
“Yes, Grandpa. I’m very lucky to have my parents,” Sam
said seriously.
“Good boy,” Edward wearily
replied. “Now come give me a hug.”
Sam hugged his ailing grandfather
and then returned home with his father.
Elizabeth sat down beside Edward and stroked his right hand.
“What did you boys talk about while
James and I were reviewing the deeds?” she asked.
“Sam told me that his class was
talking about family history, so I told Sam about my parents. They were the first in my line to live
in this colony.”
Elizabeth smiled and nodded.
“I never had a chance to meet your
father. We married some ten years
after his death.”
Edward looked back at his wife
blankly and pondered her words. It
was true. Elizabeth never had a
chance to meet James Cate. Perhaps
because of his father’s loss, Edward cleaved all the more willingly to his
father-in-law, Philip Tucker.
Edward was honored to administer Philip’s estate when he died in
1695. Too bad Edward’s father
couldn’t have lived that long. James
Cate went before his time.
“I’m tired, dear,” Edward muttered
to his wife in a sleepy daze.
“Of course,” Elizabeth
replied. She kissed her husband’s
head and left the room. He dreamed
that night of his father and grandson meeting, which they never did in
reality.
Edward died a few days later. Like his father, he never created a
will.
Edward’s grandson, Samuel Cate,
lived to be ninety-two. He had the
opportunity to meet all of his great-grandchildren.
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1 comment:
There's some fascinating family history there, Matt. I admit I don't know a lot about my own family's history. It's interesting to hear the stories that later get boiled down into court records and such.
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